MosaiQ is a Q Group (employee resource group) dedicated to advancing the careers, goals, and well-being of communities of color by intentionally and continuously attracting and engaging diverse talent, stimulating awareness around the need to amplify underrepresented voices, and cultivating belonging within our customer and employee experiences.
This week, a group of MosaiQ teammates and allies at Qualtrics put together a list of several tips and resources that we have found helpful within our company. After we shared this internally as a part of our action plan outlined by our CEO, we heard from friends outside of Qualtrics who were also interested in reading it. We realized we had created something valuable and so we wanted to share this publicly in the hopes that others may also find it helpful as we continue having these critical conversations and help to be a part of the solution.
First steps to being an ally:
- Sit in discomfort - if you are not Black, you may find yourself feeling uncomfortable. We invite you to sit with that discomfort. Choose to take this as an opportunity to think about why you are feeling uncomfortable. Is it because you learned more about insidious systems of oppression? Is it your own biases (whether conscious or unconscious)? Is it your past behavior? Don’t chase this feeling away -- name it, find the root cause, and use this feeling as motivation to change yourself and the world we live in.
- Having feelings about injustice is not enough. It may seem that by expressing emotion (anger, sadness, frustration) that you are being an ally, because you are indicating that you think what happened was wrong or unfair. Merely feeling sad about injustice doesn’t mean you’ve done anything to make the world more just. Let this discomfort push you to learn, understand, and act.
- Proactively learn - Do not expect to be taught or shown. Take it upon yourself to use the tools around you to learn and answer your questions and do everything you can to educate yourself before you ask others to explain things to you. Google is your best friend. We have also added multiple resources for self-education below.
- Emotional Burden - Building on point #1, when you learn from others, do not allow your emotions or feelings to turn the attention back to yourself (i.e. your need to be comforted). Instead, focus on the actions that need to be taken.
- Listen to understand - A knee jerk reaction may be to defend yourself and explain how “you are not racist.” Put defensiveness aside and have an open mind as you educate yourself (see point #2). Feelings of discomfort may arise (see point #1), and that is okay. If all else fails and you still do not know which actions to take, listen to what the members of the impacted community are saying - it is important. Read White Fragility: Why It’s So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism by Robin DiAngelo.
- Diversify your perspectives - look at the books you read, shows you watch, podcasts you listen to, people you follow, etc. Do they represent a diverse perspective? Are multiple Black experiences being represented? If not, make updates to whose stories you are hearing.
- Don’t be a bystander - Many people aren’t sure how to respond if they witness microaggressions, discrimination, or racism in action. This video offers a concise approach to bystander intervention that does not rely on the police.
- Be an anti-racist - Admit when you, others, policy, and systems are racist and challenge those racist ideas. Adopt anti-racist ideas and actions in their place. Read How To Be An Antiracist by Dr. Ibram X. Kendi.
Resources:
Articles to read:
- “America’s Racial Contract Is Killing Us” by Adam Serwer | Atlantic (May 8, 2020)
- Ella Baker and the Black Freedom Movement (Mentoring a New Generation of Activists)
- ”My Life as an Undocumented Immigrant” by Jose Antonio Vargas | NYT Mag (June 22, 2011)
- The 1619 Project (all the articles) | The New York Times Magazine
- The Combahee River Collective Statement
- “The Intersectionality Wars” by Jane Coaston | Vox (May 28, 2019)
- Tips for Creating Effective White Caucus Groups by Craig Elliott, PhD
- ”White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack” by Knapsack Peggy McIntosh
- “Who Gets to Be Afraid in America?” by Dr. Ibram X. Kendi | Atlantic (May 12, 2020)
- “Maintaining Professionalism in the Age of Black Death is… A Lot” by Shenequa Golding | Medium (May 28, 2020)
- “White Fragility: Why It’s So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism” by Robin DiAngelo | The Good Men Project (April 9, 2015)
- “Your Black Colleagues May Look Like They’re Okay — Chances Are They’re Not” by Danielle Cadet | Refinery 29 (May 28, 2020)
- “How to Manage Your Team in Times of Political Trauma” by Michelle Kim | Medium (September 5, 2017)
- “Your Kids Aren't Too Young to Talk About Race: Resource Roundup” by Katrina Michie
- “Guide to Allyship”
Videos to watch:
- Black Feminism & the Movement for Black Lives: Barbara Smith, Reina Gossett, Charlene Carruthers (50:48)
- "How Studying Privilege Systems Can Strengthen Compassion" | Peggy McIntosh at TEDxTimberlaneSchools (18:26)
- Don’t be a Bystander: 6 Tips for Responding to Racist Attacks | BCRW and members of Project NIA
- Equity - The Unequal Opportunity Race | African American Policy Forum
- Uncomfortable Conversations With a Black Man Pt:1 | Emmanuel Acho
Podcasts to subscribe to:
- 1619 (New York Times)
- About Race
- Code Switch (NPR)
- Intersectionality Matters! hosted by Kimberlé Crenshaw
- Momentum: A Race Forward Podcast
- Pod For The Cause (from The Leadership Conference on Civil & Human Rights)
- Pod Save the People (Crooked Media)
- Seeing White
Books to read:
- Black Feminist Thought by Patricia Hill Collins
- Eloquent Rage: A Black Feminist Discovers Her Superpower by Dr. Brittney Cooper
- Heavy: An American Memoir by Kiese Laymon
- How To Be An Antiracist by Dr. Ibram X. Kendi
- I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou
- Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson
- Me and White Supremacy by Layla F. Saad
- Raising Our Hands by Jenna Arnold
- Raising White Kids: Bringing Up Children in a Racially Unjust America by Jennifer Harvey
- Redefining Realness by Janet Mock
- Sister Outsider by Audre Lorde
- So You Want to Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo
- Stamped from the Beginning by Dr. Ibram X. Kendi
- The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison
- The Fire Next Time by James Baldwin
- The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness by Michelle Alexander
- The Next American Revolution: Sustainable Activism for the Twenty-First Century by Grace Lee Boggs
- The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson
- Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Neale Hurston
- This Bridge Called My Back: Writings by Radical Women of Color by Cherríe Moraga
- When Affirmative Action Was White: An Untold History of Racial Inequality in Twentieth-Century America by Ira Katznelson
- White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism by Robin DiAngelo, PhD
- Why I’m No Longer Talking to White People About Race by Reni Eddo-Lodge
Films and TV series to watch:
- 13th (Ava DuVernay) — Netflix
- American Son (Kenny Leon) — Netflix
- Black Power Mixtape: 1967-1975 — Available to rent
- Clemency (Chinonye Chukwu) — Available to rent
- Dear White People (Justin Simien) — Netflix
- Fruitvale Station (Ryan Coogler) — Available to rent
- I Am Not Your Negro (James Baldwin doc) — Available to rent or on Kanopy
- If Beale Street Could Talk (Barry Jenkins) — Hulu
- Just Mercy (Destin Daniel Cretton) — Available to rent
- King In The Wilderness — HBO
- See You Yesterday (Stefon Bristol) — Netflix
- Selma (Ava DuVernay) — Available to rent
- The Black Panthers: Vanguard of the Revolution — Available to rent
- The Hate U Give (George Tillman Jr.) — Hulu with Cinemax
- When They See Us (Ava DuVernay) — Netflix
Organizations to follow on social media:
- Antiracism Center: Twitter
- Audre Lorde Project: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- Black Women’s Blueprint: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- Color Of Change: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- Colorlines: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- The Conscious Kid: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- Equal Justice Initiative (EJI): Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- Families Belong Together: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- The Leadership Conference on Civil & Human Rights: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- MPowerChange: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- Muslim Girl: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- NAACP: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- National Domestic Workers Alliance: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- RAICES: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- Showing Up for Racial Justice (SURJ): Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- SisterSong: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
- United We Dream: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
How to spend your money:
- Official George Floyd Memorial Fund
- I Run with Maud
- Justice for Breonna Taylor Petition and Fundraiser
- Black Lives Matter
- NAACP Legal Defense Fund
- Campaign Zero
- Support Victims
- Support Protestors
- Support Black Owned Businesses Harmed in the Riots
- Other Related Causes
- A Directory of Community Bail Funds - Find Your Local One
- Google Document of Bail & Mutual Aid Funds / Organizers / Black-Owned Businesses
Petitions to Sign:
- #WECANTBREATH - George Floyd petitions
- Justice for George Floyd
- Justice for Breonna Taylor
- Justice for Ahmaud Arbery
- Justice for Tony McDade
- Justice for David McAtee
- More Petitions to Sign
- Even More Petitions to Sign
*Many of these resources were compiled by Sarah Sophie Flicker, Alyssa Klein in May 2020 on this document, as well as Adam Rei Siegel in his Ally Resource Guide